giovedì 8 novembre 2018

HL CHAPTER 1 Other People’s Shoes

CHAPTER 1 Other People’s Shoes
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being against empathy is like being against kittens
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I am not against morality, compassion, kindness, love, being a good neighbor, being a mensch, and doing the right thing.
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Anger can drive a father to beat his infant son to death, but anger at injustice can transform the world.
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Robert Jay Lifton, in The Nazi Doctors, talks about the struggles of those who performed experiments on prisoners in concentration camps.
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the pros and cons.
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One book on the topic lists nine different meanings
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the act of coming to experience the world as you think someone else does.
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“sympathy.”
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If your suffering makes me suffer, if I feel what you feel, that’s empathy
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social cognition, social intelligence, mind reading, theory of mind, or mentalizing.
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involuntarily.
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But empathy is more than a reflex. It can be nurtured,
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empathy can be a choice.
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to see the world through the eyes of those who are different from us
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Right now, there are over fifteen hundred books on amazon.com with empathy in their title or subtitle.
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the lack of empathy that Americans—and particularly police officers—have with racial minorities.
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lack of empathy that many Americans have with the police, or with the victims of crimes.
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George Lakoff writes, “Behind every progressive policy lies a single moral value: empathy.
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Jeremy Rifkin calls for us to make the “leap to global empathic consciousness,
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Emily Bazelon writes “The scariest aspect of bullying is the total lack of empathy”
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diagnoses “a crisis of empathy
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Simon Baron-Cohen. For him, evil individuals are nothing more than people who lack empathy.
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the magic bullet of morality.
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Empathy can make us care about a slave, or a homeless person, or someone in solitary confinement.
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I do not ask the wounded person how he feels. I myself become the wounded person.”
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“How would you feel if someone did that to you?”
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Every charity, every political movement, every social cause will use empathy to motivate
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the laboratory research, the cognitive neuroscience studies, the philosophical analyses, the research with babies and chimps and rats
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there are other possible motivations for good action.
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you are walking by a lake and see a young child struggling in shallow water.
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imagine what it feels like to be drowning,
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But that is hardly necessary.
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we are capable of all sorts of moral judgments that aren’t grounded in empathy.
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We disapprove of people who shoplift or cheat on their taxes, throw garbage out of their car windows, or jump ahead in line
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One’s morality can be rooted in a religious worldview or a philosophical
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worry that we are making the planet hotter
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These worries have nothing to do with an empathic connection with anyone in particular
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there is no particular person to feel empathic toward
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“trigger warnings”
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trigger warnings as “‘empathetic correctness.’
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students are … refusing to read texts that challenge their own personal comfort.”
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they rest on considerations that are long term, procedural, and abstract.
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students benefit from being challenged by new experiences.
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colleges and universities will divert attention from more important issues, such as better mental health care for students.
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so this debate illustrates that there is more than one way to motivate moral concern.
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empathy was more powerful than fairness, leading to a decision that most of us would see as immoral.
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Leslie Jamison, author of The Empathy Exams,
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Jason Baldwin, a man who was falsely imprisoned for many years
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webs of empathy, forays of imagination,
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faith in Christ.”
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Zell Kravinsky,
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he then arranged to donate one of his kidneys
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[H]e puts his altruism in mathematical terms. Quoting scientific studies that show the risk of dying as a result of making a kidney donation to be only 1 in 4,000,
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motivated by their cold logic and reasoning, actually do more
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To think otherwise is either to define empathy so broadly
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empathy versus religion
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empathy versus reason
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empathy versus more distanced compassion,
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if there is a conflict, then empathy should win.
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religious
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utilitarian,
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So how can we put empathy to the test? One way is to look at its consequences.
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A young man has serious problems with drugs and gets arrested; his wealthy parents bail him out. Or they don’t;
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A woman decides to have an abortion; a student cheats on an exam
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Similarly, if you save the drowning girl and she grows up to be a genocidal dictator and destroys the world,
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how in Passau, Germany, in the winter of 1894, a four-year-old child playing tag fell through the ice of a frozen river and was rescued by a local priest named Johann Kuehberger—“a brave comrade” as a local paper described him. According to some sources, the child was Adolf Hitler.
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“consequentialism,”
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Jeremy Bentham, John Stuart Mill, and Henry Sidgwick,
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Peter Singer and Shelly Kagan.
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principles,
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Kant
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There is an obvious moral difference between killing someone on purpose and killing someone through an unavoidable accident
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the gap between consequentialism and principle-based moral views might not be as large as it first seems.
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Think about a rule like “Always stop at a red light.” In a sense this isn’t very consequentialist; when the road is clear
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Maybe we should think about “do not torture” in the same way:
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nobody denies that consequences also matter.
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So what are the consequences of empathy? Does it make the world a better place?
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It certainly looks like it.
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I feel his pain, I feel what it’s like to be bullied
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Empathy is like a spotlight directing attention
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It does poorly in a world where there are many people in need
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Further, spotlights only illuminate what they are pointed at, so empathy reflects our biases.
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empathy distorts our moral judgments in pretty much the same way that prejudice does.
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focuses on specific individuals.
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the murders of twenty children and six adults at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Connecticut, in 2012.
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The town was inundated with so much charity that it added to their burden.
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this sort of irrational and disproportionate response.
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we should empathize with billions of other people around the world, in Bangladesh and Pyongyang and the Sudan.
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If God exists, maybe He can simultaneously feel the pain and pleasure of every sentient being.
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empathy really is a spotlight. It’s a spotlight that has a narrow focus,
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empathy were simply silent when faced with problems involving large numbers,
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Empathy is particularly insensitive to consequences that apply statistically rather than to specific individuals.
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consider Willie Horton. In 1987 Horton, a convicted murderer, was released on furlough from the Northeastern Correctional Center in Massachusetts and raped a woman after attacking and tying up her fiancé. The furlough program came to be seen as a humiliating mistake on the part of Governor Michael Dukakis and was used against him by his opponents during his subsequent run for president. Yet the program may have reduced the likelihood of such incidents.
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what really matters for kindness in our everyday interactions is not empathy but capacities such as self-control and intelligence and a more diffuse compassion.
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who are high in empathy can be too caught up in the suffering of other people.
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Making children suffer temporarily for their own good is made possible by love, intelligence, and compassion, but yet again, it can be impeded by empathy.
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the capacity to understand what’s going on in other people’s heads,
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Am I against this sort of “cognitive empathy” as well? I couldn’t be.
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a good moral agent requires an understanding of how people work.
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If a student is doing poorly and I meet with him to tell him he’s failing, it’s just basic kindness to try to speak with him in a way that doesn’t cause excessive worry or embarrassment.
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There has been a lot of debate, for instance, over whether judges should be chosen based in part on their capacity to empathize. Perhaps surprisingly, I think the answer is yes
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But this understanding of the minds of others is an amoral tool, useful for effecting whatever goals you choose.
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cognitive empathy,
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morally neutral.
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empathy is related to compassion and concern, and sometimes the terms are used synonymously.
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compassion and concern are more diffuse than empathy.
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empathy for the millions of victims of malaria,
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perfectly normal to say that you are concerned about them or feel compassion for them.
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More empathic people are kinder and more caring and more moral. This proves that empathy is a force for good.
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this claim about the relationship between empathy and certain good traits is an empirical
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it turns out that the relationship between empathy and goodness is weak.
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high empathy for the suffering of others can paralyze people,
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People who lack empathy are psychopaths, and those are the worst people in the world. So you need empathy.
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this is also the sort of thing that you can test in the lab, and it turns out to be unsupported. As we’ll see, the problems with psychopaths may have more to do with lack of self-control
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There might be aspects of morality that don’t ultimately involve empathy, but empathy is at the core of morality. Without it, there is no justice, fairness, or compassion.
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Think about your judgments about throwing garbage out of your car window, cheating on your taxes, spraying racist graffiti on a building, and similar acts with diffuse consequences. You can appreciate that these are wrong without having to engage in empathic engagement with any specific individuals,
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We can’t feel compassion without first feeling emotional empathy,
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I see a child crying because she’s afraid of a barking dog. I might rush over to pick her up and calm her, and I might really care for her, but there’s no empathy there. I don’t feel her fear, not in the slightest.
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feeling empathy for another person is very different from feeling compassion
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But don’t you need some sort of emotional push to motivate you to be a good person? Cold reason isn’t enough.
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Reason,” David Hume famously said, is the “slave of the passions.”
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The “passions” that Hume talks about can be many things. They can be anger, shame, guilt, or, more positively, a more diffuse compassion, kindness, and love.
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Empathy can be used for good. There are cases where our expansion of empathy has led to positive changes. Every moral revolution, from antislavery to gay rights, has used empathy as a spark, and it’s used as well in everyday acts of kindness.
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Empathy can be used to support judgments and actions
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Empathy is used as a tool by charitable organizations, religious groups, political parties, and governments, and to the extent that those who spark this empathy have the right moral goals, it can be a valuable force.
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While I think empathy is a terrible guide to moral judgment,
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I sent out a postcard (this was before the Web) to an international aid agency, asking for information as to how I could support their cause. I remember opening the package they sent me and expecting to see information about what they were up to—statistics and graphs and the like. But they were smarter than that. They sent me a child. A small photograph,
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this is the life you will save.”
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And it worked: Many years later we were still sending money to that child’s family.
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consider a recent study by Abigail Marsh and her colleagues, of people who choose to donate their kidneys to strangers. Consistent with my argument, these exceptionally altruistic individuals do not score higher on standard empathy tests than normal people.
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The researchers were interested in the amygdala
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these neural differences are causes, not consequences, and your early sensitivity
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One could write a book recounting the good things that arise from empathy. But this is a limited argument in its defense. There are positive effects of just about any strong feeling. Not just empathy but also anger, fear, desire for revenge, and religious fervor
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Consider racism.
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One has to show that the good that racism does outweighs the bad
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novels like Uncle Tom’s Cabin and Bleak House prompted significant social change by guiding readers to feel the suffering of fictional characters. But we tend to forget that other novels push us in different ways.
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For every Uncle Tom’s Cabin there is a Birth of a Nation. For every Bleak House there is an Atlas Shrugged.
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Every single one of these fictions plays on its readers’ empathy:
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one might agree that empathy is on the whole unreliable yet still argue that we should exploit people’s empathy for good causes. I have some sympathy with this position, but I worry about the racism analogy.
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there are other ways to change people’s minds. We can, for example, use the truth.
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You’ve mentioned all sorts of alternatives to empathy. But don’t these also suffer from limitations and bias?
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Compassion is biased; concern is biased; and even cost-benefit reasoning is biased.
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But there is a continuum here. On the one extreme is empathy. This is the worst.
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We do best when we rely on reason. Michael Lynch defines reason as the act of justification and explanation
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But you just admitted that we’re sometimes bad at reasoning. And many psychologists and philosophers would go further and say that we are terrible at it, so much so that we are better off relying on our gut feelings, including empathy.
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the problem here is with reasoning badly, not with reason itself.
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Even the fans of moral emotions implicitly grant priority to reason. If you ask them why they think so highly of empathy (or compassion or pity or anything else), they won’t just insist, they won’t scream or weep or try to bite you. Rather they’ll make arguments.
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one way my psychologist and philosopher friends might deal with this tension is to claim that most people are incapable of rational deliberation. But they themselves—and those they are writing for, you and me—are the exceptions.
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it’s worth, it doesn’t match my own experience.
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To put it differently, I’ve met people who are stubborn, biased, purposely obtuse, slow on the uptake, suspicious of disagreement, and absurdly defensive—actually, I am very often exactly this kind of a person—but I’ve never met anyone who was insensitive to data and argument in the moral realm and
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We reason best when we have help, and certain communities help reason to flourish. Scientific inquiry is the finest example
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To say that psychological research shows that empathy is a poor moral guide entails some judgments about what’s actually right and wrong.
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if you were instead to say, “So what? Who cares about the death of children?” or “There is no difference between one child dying and twenty children dying,” then we don’t share enough common ground to proceed.
ESEMPIO...DI COMMON GROUND