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mercoledì 17 gennaio 2018

3 Organizziamoci con le liste

Bibbia e Mania delle liste. Organizzarsi con le liste. Anche dio lo fece.Il calendario settimanale.

Fissa un appuntamento, fai una lista. Il problema non è la carenza di obiettivi ma il fatto che ce ne sono troppi.

Non cercare di lungo termine. Meglio il breve.

Il problema dei trade-off. Obiettivi che confliggono. Misericordia che confligge con la giustizia.

Prima conseguenza del trade-off, ci preoccupiamo. Sprechiamo un mucchio di tempo a contemplare.

Seconda conseguenze, non facciamo più nulla. Ci paralizzano.

Terzo conseguenza, conseguenze sulla  nostra salute fisica.

I drogati hanno un orizzonte temporale bravissimo ho perso un'ora. Preferiscono il rischio.

Ma anche il breve periodo ha dei meriti. Ci impegna: studenti delle elementari molto meglio fissare obiettivi di breve. Ma non è una regola fissa.

Obiettivo specifico o vago? Quello svago demoralizza meno il soffrire meno. Inoltre consuma meno tempo.

Napoleone segue regole, i Prussiani piani. Dopo il Viet Napoleone torna. Con l'imprevedibilità la flessibilità diventa un valore. saper fare un piano su una cartolina.

david allen get the thing done. le liste non bastano.

liberare la mente... il piano serve a quello

partite dalla cosa più vicina. dall'azione futura fattibile NEXT ACTION. archiviare rilassa. NON: FARE REGALO ALLA MAMMA, MA: VAI IN GIOIELLERIA. non: sentire il commercialista, ma: fai una mail al commercialista. sbloccarsi è decisivo. Doeble.

effetto zeigarnik: il cameriere che ricordava tutto e poi dimenticava tutto. compiti finiti/non finiti. azzerare. l'inconscio chiede alla coscienza un piano, finche non arriva produce pop up. il giorno della marmotta.

avere un piano ci rende più concentrati sul resto.

il disordine rende creativi... ma un disordine alla volta.

il teologo lavora meglio se non resta a corto di cibo per il gatto.

decidere è uccidere: far fuori i costi opportunità. ci dispiace ma ci alleggerisce.

3. Napo

Strategie militari: Napoleone seguiva una regola, i prussiani un piano.
Fino a metà del XX secolo privilegiata la seconda via. Dopo il Vietnam, grande ritorno di Napo.
Oggi: piani sì, purché riportabili su una cartolina.
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3 Un disordine alla volta!

Il libro che ha ispirato l'unica regola di casa mia: "un disordine alla volta, per favore".
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venerdì 21 aprile 2017

Volontà e Potenza

Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength by Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney
Intelligenza e autocontrollo: le chiavi del successo...
... However you define success—a happy family, good friends, a satisfying career, robust health, financial security, the freedom to pursue your passions—it tends to be accompanied by a couple of qualities... intelligence and self-control...
Ma: mentre l'intelligenza è "rigida", sull'autocontrollo è più facile agire...
... So far researchers still haven’t learned how to permanently increase intelligence. But they have discovered, or at least rediscovered, how to improve self-control...
Ai tempi di Darwin, in epoca vittoriana, il dominio delle emozioni era tutto...
... As Charles Darwin wrote in The Descent of Man, “The highest possible stage in moral culture is when we recognize that we ought to control our thoughts.” The Victorian notion of willpower would later fall out of favor...
Subentrò un certo scetticismo per queste pratiche, senonché, oggi, il laboratorio ha di nuovo portato fiducia: possiamo migliorarci...
... Baumeister himself started out as something of a skeptic. But then he observed willpower in the laboratory: how it gives people the strength to persevere, how they lose self-control as their willpower is depleted, how this mental energy is fueled by the glucose in the body’s bloodstream...
La volontà è come un muscolo: può essere allenato con frutto...
... willpower, like a muscle, becomes fatigued from overuse but can also be strengthened over the long term through exercise...
Allenare la volontà è forse il miglior investimento psicologico a nostra disposizione.
La mancanza di autocontrollo è la fonte di innumerevoli guai...
... most major problems, personal and social, center on failure of self-control: compulsive spending and borrowing, impulsive violence, underachievement in school, procrastination at work, alcohol and drug abuse, unhealthy diet, lack of exercise, chronic anxiety, explosive anger...
Eppure la virtù è poco apprezzata: nessuno sogna di essere più controllato...
... Ask people to name their greatest personal strengths, and they’ll often credit themselves with honesty, kindness, humor, creativity, bravery, and other virtues—even modesty. But not self-control...
Il mondo d'oggi, con tutte le tentazioni che propone, sorride a chi sa controllarsi...
... People feel overwhelmed because there are more temptations than ever... Facebook, surfing gossip sites...
Ogni giorno è un "resistere, resistere, resistere"...
... The most commonly resisted desire in the beeper study was the urge to eat, followed by the urge to sleep, and then by the urge for leisure, like taking a break from work by doing a puzzle or game instead of writing a memo. Sexual urges were next on the list of most-resisted desires, a little ahead of urges for other kinds of interactions, like checking e-mail and social-networking sites, surfing the Web, listening to music, or watching television...
In altre epoche storiche erano altre le doti preminenti. Prendiamo il medioevo: forza fisica e lealtà erano le regine...
... During the Middle Ages, most people were peasants who put in long, dull days in the fields, frequently accompanied by prodigious amounts of ale. They weren’t angling for promotions at work or trying to climb the social ladder, so there wasn’t a premium on diligence (or a great need for sobriety)...
La comunità era tutto e quindi l'osservanza del rito diveniva l'asse portante. Pensiamo solo alla salvezza cristiana...
... In the medieval Catholic Church, salvation depended more on being part of the group and keeping up with the standard rituals than on heroic acts of willpower...
Illuminismo. La fede declina. I vittoriani si chiedono: che fare? È possibile salvaguardare l'etica (della volontà) anche in assenza di fede?...
... Many Victorians came to doubt religious principles on theoretical grounds, but they kept pretending to be faithful believers because they considered it their public duty to preserve morality...
Certe soluzioni vittoriane si prestano alla presa in giro. Il loro nemico più puntuto era un vero genio del motto...
... Oscar Wilde’s philosophy: “I can resist everything except temptation.”...
Nacque l'espressione "forza di volontà", era un modo per dare una fede anche agli atei...
... As Victorians fretted over moral decay and the social pathologies concentrated in cities, they looked for something more tangible than divine grace, some internal strength that could protect even an atheist. They began using the term willpower...
"Il genio è pazienza". Nacquero i libri di self-help...
... People sought to increase their store of it by following the exhortations of the Englishman Samuel Smiles in Self-Help, one of the most popular books...
Successo = Autonegazione...
... explaining the success of everyone from Isaac Newton to Stonewall Jackson as the result of “self-denial” and “untiring perseverance.”...
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Poi la forza di volontà andò fuori moda. Forse per colpa di certi eccessi vittoriani...
... The fascination with willpower ebbed in the twentieth century partly in reaction to the Victorians’ excesses...
Alcuni accusarono il senso del dovere di stare dietro le guerre dell'Occidente...
... The prolonged bloodshed of World War I seemed a consequence of too many stubborn gentlemen following their “duty” to senseless...
Gli intellettuali predicavano una vita più rilassata...
Non si può negare che negli anni trenta furono i tedeschi i maggiori cultori della volontà. Chi non ricorda certi film simbolo...
... That theme would be embraced by the Nazis, whose rally in 1934 was featured in Leni Riefenstahl’s infamous propaganda film, The Triumph of the Will...
inoltre: il nuovo mondo del consumismo e della pubblicità non desiderava clienti troppo "volenterosi"...
... The decline of will didn’t seem like such a bad thing, and after the war there were other forces weakening it. As technology made goods cheaper and suburbanites richer, stimulating consumer demand became vital to the economy, and a sophisticated new advertising industry urged everyone to buy now. ..
Il nuovo obbiettivo non era più "resistere" ma sedurre gli altri...
... The new bestsellers were cheery works like Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People and Norman Vincent Peale’s The Power of Positive Thinking. Carnegie spent eight pages instructing readers how to smile...
Il nuovo trend: "credici e lo avrai"...
... “The basic factor in psychology is the realizable wish,” Peale wrote. “The man who assumes success tends already to have success.” Napoleon Hill sold millions of copies of Think and Grow Rich by telling readers to decide how much money they wanted...
Anni sessanta: il piacere su tutto...
... Wheelis used Freudian terms in discussing the decline of the superego in Western society, but he was essentially talking about a weakening of willpower—and all this was before the baby boomers came of age in the 1960s with a countercultural mantra of “If it feels good, do it.”...
Anni settanta: la "me-generation".
Paura di colpevolizzare. Se non devono esserci colpevoli, non devono esserci virtù, specie quelle che non dipendono dal talento, come la forza di volontà...
... Most social scientists look for causes of misbehavior outside the individual: poverty, relative deprivation, oppression, or other failures of the environment or the economic and political systems. Searching for external factors is often more comfortable for everyone, particularly for the many academics who worry that they risk the politically incorrect sin of “blaming the victim”...
***
Ma in certi ambienti l'autocontrollo ha sempre goduto di cattiva famaFreud lo legava alla parte più torbida dell'inconscio...
... The very notion that people can consciously control themselves has traditionally been viewed suspiciously by psychologists. Freudians claimed that much of adult human behavior was the result of unconscious forces and processes...
Skinner lo liquidava come mero rafforzatore degli istinti...
... B. F. Skinner had little respect for the value of consciousness and other mental processes, except as needed to process reinforcement contingencies...
Il concetto di forza di volontà richiama quello di coscienza, e il concetto di coscienza fa paura in certi ambienti, mette in crisi lo stereotipo dell'uomo-animale...
... Some neuroscientists claim to have disproved its existence. Many philosophers refuse to use the term...
Ne abbiamo un'idea quando pensiamo che in certi ambienti giuridici si arriva a proporre l'eliminazione del concetto di responsabilità...
... Recently, some scholars have even begun to argue that the legal system must be revamped to eliminate outdated notions of free will and responsibility...
***
Fu l'autostima a soppiantare l'autocontrollo: la libertà e la necessità di decidere da sé dava ansia ai bimbi, che avevano bisogno di autostima...
... Baumeister shared the general skepticism toward willpower when he started his career as a social psychologist in the 1970s at Princeton. His colleagues were then focusing not on self-control but on self-esteem... people with more confidence in their ability and their self-worth tended to be happier and more successful. So why not help everyone else succeed by finding ways to boost their confidence?...
Prima conseguenza: narcisismo.
Seconda conseguenza: non è detto che più autostima ci fa rendere al meglio...
... While international surveys showed that U.S. eighth-grade math students had exceptionally high confidence in their own abilities, on tests they scored far below Koreans, Japanese, and other students with less self-esteem...
Fu anche la sperimentazione a favorire il ritorno della forza di volontà...
... The resurrection of self-control wasn’t led by theorists, who were still convinced that willpower was a quaint Victorian myth. But when other psychologists went into the laboratory or the field, they kept happening on something that looked an awful lot like it...
Il "ritorno della volontà" fu accolto con un "lo sa anche mia nonna". Ma il nuovo sapere era di natura sperimentale, qui stava la novità...
.... Progress generally comes not from theories but from someone finding a clever way to test a theory, as Walter Mischel did...
Chi non ricorda il test del marshmallow?
I bimbi che resistono alle tentazioni sanno come distrarsi e avranno più successo da iallito la prova?...
... He noticed that the children who had failed to wait for the extra marshmallow seemed to get in more trouble...
Voti scolastici e test del marshmallow...
... They found that the ones who had shown the most willpower at age four went on to get better grades and test scores...
Contro Freud: malnutrizione e patologie a parte, la vita infantile influenza poco quella adulta. È il carattere a fare la differenza...
... These were stunning results, because it’s quite rare for anything measured in early childhood to predict anything in adulthood at a statistically significant level. Indeed, this disconnect was one of the death blows against the Freudian psychoanalytic approach to psychology, which emphasized early childhood experiences as the foundation of adult personality...
La gran parte delle patologie sociali sono da imputare a caratteri malformati...
... “Self-regulation failure is the major social pathology of our time,” they concluded, pointing to the accumulating evidence of its contribution to high divorce rates, domestic violence, crime, and a host of other problems...
A scuola, poi, l'autocontrollo conta più dell'intelligenza...
... Self-control also proved to be a better predictor of college grades than the student’s IQ or SAT score. Although raw intelligence was obviously an advantage, the study showed that self-control was more important because it helped the students show up more reliably for classes, start their homework earlier, and spend more time working and less time watching television...
Sul lavoro chi sa controllarsi è più apprezzato da colleghi e dipendenti...
... In workplaces, managers scoring high in self-control were rated more favorably by their subordinates as well as by their peers...
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Autocontrollo ed evoluzione: come e perché si sviluppa una simile facoltà?
L’autocontrollo richiede cervelli enormi. Autocontrollo e dimensioni del cervello sono correlati, spiegato un fattore si spiega anche l’altro.
L'uomo e i suoi lobi frontali, un pezzo unico...
... The human brain is distinguished by large and elaborate frontal lobes, giving us what was long assumed to be the crucial evolutionary advantage: the intelligence to solve problems in the environment....
Ma un cervello tanto grande consuma tanta energia. Bisogna mantenerlo...
... But big brains also require lots of energy. The adult human brain makes up 2 percent of the body but consumes more than 20 percent of its energy....
Primo tentativo di spiegare: teoria della banana, o teoria del cerchio: cervelli grandi per cercare banane e banane per mantenere cervelli grandi...
... One early explanation for the large brain involved bananas and other calorie-rich fruits. Animals that graze on grass don’t need to do a lot of thinking about where to find their next meal... A banana eater needs a bigger brain to remember where the ripe stuff is, and the brain could be powered by all the calories in the bananas, so the “fruit-seeking brain theory”...
La teoria fallisce. Robin Dunbar: nessun supporto per la teoria: dimensioni cervelll e alimentazione non sono correlati.
Teoria alternativa: teoria sociale...
... Animals with bigger brains had larger and more complex social networks... Humans are the primates who have the largest frontal lobes because we have the largest social groups, and that’s apparently why we have the most need for self-control...
L'autocontrollo dà vantaggi privati ma la sua funzione è sociale...
... We tend to think of willpower as a force for personal betterment—adhering to a diet, getting work done on time, going out to jog, quitting smoking—but that’s probably not the primary reason it evolved so fully in our ancestors...
L'autocontrollo serve a stare in modo ordinato in una gerarchia. Esempio: l’autocontrollo  medio nei primati non umani è di 20 minuti, il tempo del pasto del maschio alfa. Se non so trattenermi sono guai...
... For animals to survive in such a group without getting beaten up, they must restrain their urge to eat immediately... Experts surmise that the smartest nonhuman primates can mentally project perhaps twenty minutes into the future—long enough to let the alpha male eat, but not long enough for much planning beyond dinner...
Nell'uomo sorprende la capacità di generalizzare...
... One piece of cake won’t make you fat, and skipping one assignment won’t ruin your career. But in order to stay healthy and employed, you must treat (almost) every episode as a reflection of the general need to resist these temptations. That’s where conscious self-control comes in...
***
Oggi c'è la possibilità di coniugare scienza e morale vittoriana...
... We hope to combine the best of modern social science with some of the practical wisdom of the Victorians....
Il revival della volontà compare con modalità sempre diverse e sorprendenti...
... We’ll explain why corporate leaders pay $20,000 a day to learn the secrets of the to-do list from a former karate instructor, and why Silicon Valley’s entrepreneurs are creating digital tools to promote nineteenth-century values...
***
La mente umana è sempre stata vista come un pc capace di processare info...
... mind as if it were a little computer. These information models of the human mind generally ignored concepts like power or energy...
Ora sappiamo invece che tra le sue capacità fondamentali c’è anche quella di produrre energia.
Produrre energia è possibile: non è facile come sembra da certi libri self help e nemmeno crudele come fanno credere certi eccessi vittoriani...
... Acquiring self-control isn’t as magically simple as the techniques in modern self-help books, but neither does it have to be as grim as the Victorians made it out to be. Ultimately, self-control lets you relax because it removes stress and enables you to conserve willpower for the important challenges...

giovedì 20 aprile 2017

INTRO - Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength by Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney

Willpower: Rediscovering Our Greatest Strength by Roy F. Baumeister, John Tierney
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Growth (with Christopher Buckley) To our children, Athena and Luke IntroductionRead more at location 40
Note: intelligenza+selfcontrol=>successo aumentare i.: impossibile x ora aumentare sc.: possibile la temperanza virtù sottovalutata: è alla base di tutti i probemi viviamo nel secolo delle tentazioni una riabilitazione del filisteo vittoriano: nn crede ma comprende che la disciplina imposta dalla chiesa abbia un ruolo la vittoria a distanza dei vittoriani su wilde... affermazione del self help Edit
However you define success—a happy family, good friends, a satisfying career, robust health, financial security, the freedom to pursue your passions—it tends to be accompanied by a couple of qualities.Read more at location 40
Note: IL SUCCESSO: INTELLIGENZA E SELF Edit
intelligence and self-control.Read more at location 42
Note: c Edit
So far researchers still haven’t learned how to permanently increase intelligence. But they have discovered, or at least rediscovered, how to improve self-control.Read more at location 43
Note: UNA RIGIDA L ALTRA MENO Edit
As Charles Darwin wrote in The Descent of Man, “The highest possible stage in moral culture is when we recognize that we ought to control our thoughts.” The Victorian notion of willpower would later fall out of favor,Read more at location 45
Note: DATWIN E I VITTORIANI..CTRL LE EMOZIONI Edit
Baumeister himself started out as something of a skeptic. But then he observed willpower in the laboratory: how it gives people the strength to persevere, how they lose self-control as their willpower is depleted, how this mental energy is fueled by the glucose in the body’s bloodstream.Read more at location 48
Note: IL LABORATORIO Edit
willpower, like a muscle, becomes fatigued from overuse but can also be strengthened over the long term through exercise.Read more at location 50
Note: VOLONTÀ È UN MUSCOLO Edit
the surest way to a better life.Read more at location 53
most major problems, personal and social, center on failure of self-control: compulsive spending and borrowing, impulsive violence, underachievement in school, procrastination at work, alcohol and drug abuse, unhealthy diet, lack of exercise, chronic anxiety, explosive anger.Read more at location 54
Note: PROBLEMI SE MAMCA IL SLFC Edit
Ask people to name their greatest personal strengths, and they’ll often credit themselves with honesty, kindness, humor, creativity, bravery, and other virtues—even modesty. But not self-control.Read more at location 59
Note: SELF. VIRTÙ POCO APPREZZATA Edit
People feel overwhelmed because there are more temptations than ever.Read more at location 63
Note: MONDO D OGGO: MOLTE TENTAZIONI Edit
Facebook, surfing gossip sites,Read more at location 65
The most commonly resisted desire in the beeper study was the urge to eat, followed by the urge to sleep, and then by the urge for leisure, like taking a break from work by doing a puzzle or game instead of writing a memo. Sexual urges were next on the list of most-resisted desires, a little ahead of urges for other kinds of interactions, like checking e-mail and social-networking sites, surfing the Web, listening to music, or watching television.Read more at location 76
Note: LISTA DEI DESIDERI Edit
During the Middle Ages, most people were peasants who put in long, dull days in the fields, frequently accompanied by prodigious amounts of ale. They weren’t angling for promotions at work or trying to climb the social ladder, so there wasn’t a premium on diligence (or a great need for sobriety).Read more at location 85
Note: MEDIOEVO. AUTOCONTROLLO MENO ESSENZIALE. GIARDA ALLA FORZA FISICA Edit
In the medieval Catholic Church, salvation depended more on being part of the group and keeping up with the standard rituals than on heroic acts of willpower.Read more at location 88
Note: LA SALVEZZA MEDOVALE: CONTA PIÙ IL RITO E IL SENSO DI COMUNITA Edit
Enlightenment had weakened faith in any kind of dogma. Victorians saw themselves as living in a time of transitionRead more at location 91
Note: ILLUMINISMO. LA FEDE DECLINA. I VOTTOROANI. CHE FARE? Edit
Many Victorians came to doubt religious principles on theoretical grounds, but they kept pretending to be faithful believers because they considered it their public duty to preserve morality.Read more at location 93
Note: VITTORIANI: CREDERE SOLO COME SOSTEGNO ALLA MORALE Edit
mock their hypocrisyRead more at location 95
Oscar Wilde’s philosophy: “I can resist everything except temptation.”Read more at location 96
Note: IL NEMICO DEI VITTORIANI Edit
As Victorians fretted over moral decay and the social pathologies concentrated in cities, they looked for something more tangible than divine grace, some internal strength that could protect even an atheist. They began using the term willpowerRead more at location 98
Note: LA NASCITA DEL TERMINE. PER DARE UNA FEDE ANCHE AGI AYEI Edit
People sought to increase their store of it by following the exhortations of the Englishman Samuel Smiles in Self-Help, one of the most popular booksRead more at location 101
Note: SELG HELP Edit
“Genius is patience,”Read more at location 102
explaining the success of everyone from Isaac Newton to Stonewall Jackson as the result of “self-denial” and “untiring perseverance.”Read more at location 103
Note: SUCCESSO = AUTONEGAZIONE Edit
The Decline of the WillRead more at location 110
Note: motivi del declino: 1 eccessi vittoriani 2 guerra e mitizzazione del senso del dovere... naxi: il trionfo della volontà nell era della pubblicità la volontà viene rimpiazzata dal glamour e dai sorrisi declino del superego: se ti piace fallo chi sbaglia viene giustificato da eventi esterni... la volontà passa in secondo piano skinner e freud: contro volontà e coscienza l autostima rimpiazza la volontà con esiti deludenti... math studenti usa e stud coreani la riabilitazione del s.c. avviene da parte dell empiria e n dei teorici Edit
Note: t Edit
The fascination with willpower ebbed in the twentieth century partly in reaction to the Victorians’ excesses,Read more at location 112
Note: FV FUORI MODA X GLU ECCESSI VITTORIANI Edit
The prolonged bloodshed of World War I seemed a consequence of too many stubborn gentlemen following their “duty” to senseless deaths.Read more at location 113
Note: GUERRE CAUSATE DAL SENSO DEL DOVERE Edit
Intellectuals preached a more relaxed viewRead more at location 114
Germany,Read more at location 115
“psychology of will”Read more at location 115
That theme would be embraced by the Nazis, whose rally in 1934 was featured in Leni Riefenstahl’s infamous propaganda film, The Triumph of the Will.Read more at location 116
Note: LENI Edit
The decline of will didn’t seem like such a bad thing, and after the war there were other forces weakening it. As technology made goods cheaper and suburbanites richer, stimulating consumer demand became vital to the economy, and a sophisticated new advertising industry urged everyone to buy now.Read more at location 119
Note: PUBBLICITÀ. CONTRIBUISCE AL DECLINO DELLA VOLONTÀ Edit
The new bestsellers were cheery works like Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People and Norman Vincent Peale’s The Power of Positive Thinking. Carnegie spent eight pages instructing readers how to smile.Read more at location 123
Note: IL NUOVO OBIETTIVO: SEDURRE GLI ALTRI Edit
“The basic factor in psychology is the realizable wish,” Peale wrote. “The man who assumes success tends already to have success.” Napoleon Hill sold millions of copies of Think and Grow Rich by telling readers to decide how much money they wanted,Read more at location 126
Note: IL NUOVO TREND: CREDICI E LO AVRAI Edit
“Believe it, achieve it.”Read more at location 130
Wheelis used Freudian terms in discussing the decline of the superego in Western society, but he was essentially talking about a weakening of willpower—and all this was before the baby boomers came of age in the 1960s with a countercultural mantra of “If it feels good, do it.”Read more at location 138
Note: 1960… IL PIACERE Edit
the “Me Generation” of the 1970s,Read more at location 141
Most social scientists look for causes of misbehavior outside the individual: poverty, relative deprivation, oppression, or other failures of the environment or the economic and political systems. Searching for external factors is often more comfortable for everyone, particularly for the many academics who worry that they risk the politically incorrect sin of “blaming the victim”Read more at location 142
Note: PAURA DEL BLAMING THE VICTIME. RIMOZIONE Edit
The very notion that people can consciously control themselves has traditionally been viewed suspiciously by psychologists. Freudians claimed that much of adult human behavior was the result of unconscious forces and processes.Read more at location 146
Note: AUTOCONTROLLO SEMPRE VISTO MALE. FREUD: INCONSCIO Edit
B. F. Skinner had little respect for the value of consciousness and other mental processes, except as needed to process reinforcement contingencies.Read more at location 148
Note: SKINNER: ISTINTO Edit
Beyond Freedom and Dignity,Read more at location 149
Some neuroscientists claim to have disproved its existence. Many philosophers refuse to use the term.Read more at location 152
Note: LA COSCIENZA FA PAURA Edit
Recently, some scholars have even begun to argue that the legal system must be revamped to eliminate outdated notions of free will and responsibility.Read more at location 155
Note: GIURISTI CHE VOGLIONO ELIMINARE LA RESPONSABILITÀ Edit
Baumeister shared the general skepticism toward willpower when he started his career as a social psychologist in the 1970s at Princeton. His colleagues were then focusing not on self-control but on self-esteem,Read more at location 156
Note: AUTOSTIMA NN AUTOCONTROLLO Edit
people with more confidence in their ability and their self-worth tended to be happier and more successful. So why not help everyone else succeed by finding ways to boost their confidence?Read more at location 158
Note: c Edit
While international surveys showed that U.S. eighth-grade math students had exceptionally high confidence in their own abilities, on tests they scored far below Koreans, Japanese, and other students with less self-esteem.Read more at location 161
Note: MA: TEST DI MATEMATICA: AMERICANI PIÙ AUTOSTIMA MENO PRESTAZIONI Edit
The resurrection of self-control wasn’t led by theorists, who were still convinced that willpower was a quaint Victorian myth. But when other psychologists went into the laboratory or the field, they kept happening on something that looked an awful lot like it.Read more at location 164
Note: IL LABORATORIO HA RISPOLVERATO L AUTOCONTROLLO Edit
The Comeback of the WillRead more at location 166
Note: il lavoro dello scienziato: non studiare nuove teorie ma studiare come testare le teorie (da qui l ingenuo "lo sapeva anche mia nonna" il mshmalow dei bambini freud in disgrazia: salvi gravi traumi l infanzia incide poco sull adulto il marshmalow sembra un eccezione: volontà e nurture sono legate sr conta + dell intelligenza elenco dei vantaggi di sr al netto di razza classe e intelligenza Edit
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Everyone has a pet theoryRead more at location 168
“Oh, my grandmother knew that.”Read more at location 169
Note: ACCOGLIMENTO DDELLA YEORIA Edit
Progress generally comes not from theories but from someone finding a clever way to test a theory, as Walter Mischel did.Read more at location 169
Note: YESTATE Edit
They were studying how a child learns to resist immediate gratification,Read more at location 171
Note: MASH Edit
marshmallow,Read more at location 173
The ones who succeeded tended to do so by distracting themselves, which seemed an interesting enough finding at the time of the experiments, in the 1960s.Read more at location 176
Note: DISYRARSI Edit
He noticed that the children who had failed to wait for the extra marshmallow seemed to get in more troubleRead more at location 179
Note: CHO FALLISCE LA PROVA Edit
They found that the ones who had shown the most willpower at age four went on to get better grades and test scores.Read more at location 181
Note: VOTI E TEST Edit
These were stunning results, because it’s quite rare for anything measured in early childhood to predict anything in adulthood at a statistically significant level. Indeed, this disconnect was one of the death blows against the Freudian psychoanalytic approach to psychology, which emphasized early childhood experiences as the foundation of adult personality.Read more at location 185
Note: DI SOLITO: LA VITA NFANTILE INFLUENZA POCO QUELLA ADULTA. CONTRO FREUD Edit
Martin SeligmanRead more at location 188
the possible exceptions of severe trauma or malnutrition.Read more at location 189
Baumeister did in Losing Control,Read more at location 193
“Self-regulation failure is the major social pathology of our time,” they concluded, pointing to the accumulating evidence of its contribution to high divorce rates, domestic violence, crime, and a host of other problems.Read more at location 195
Note: LA PATOLOGIA CONTEMP. Edit
Self-control also proved to be a better predictor of college grades than the student’s IQ or SAT score. Although raw intelligence was obviously an advantage, the study showed that self-control was more important because it helped the students show up more reliably for classes, start their homework earlier, and spend more time working and less time watching television.Read more at location 199
Note: AUTOCPNTROLLO PIÙ IMP DELL INTELLIGENZA A SCUOLA Edit
In workplaces, managers scoring high in self-control were rated more favorably by their subordinates as well as by their peers.Read more at location 201
Note: SIL LAVORO: CHI SI CONTROLLA È PIÙ CONSIDERATO DA SUBORDINATI E PARI Edit
Evolution and EtiquetteRead more at location 227
Note: come si è evoluti il sc? società allargata=> + sc => cervello + grande sc nasce come funzione sociale più che come personal betterment: aspettare in fila il cibo dal maschio dominante... educazoone a tavola le scimmie + intelligenti progettano x 20 minuti... il tempo x consentire al dominante di nutrirsi una fetta di torta non ingrassa ma noi non la mangiamo xchè sappiamo generalizzare cosa preclusa agli animali... qui entra in gioco la coscienza e la volontà l equivoco dell inconscio: tipico di chi si concentra sulla reazione immediata nel brevissimo xiodo la coscienza è ciò che connette tutti i mictointervalli Edit
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The human brain is distinguished by large and elaborate frontal lobes, giving us what was long assumed to be the crucial evolutionary advantage: the intelligence to solve problems in the environment.Read more at location 228
Note: I LOBO FRONTALI Edit
But big brains also require lots of energy. The adult human brain makes up 2 percent of the body but consumes more than 20 percent of its energy.Read more at location 230
Note: QUANTO CONSUMANO I LOBI! Edit
One early explanation for the large brain involved bananas and other calorie-rich fruits. Animals that graze on grass don’t need to do a lot of thinking about where to find their next meal.Read more at location 233
Note: TEORIA DELLA BANANA Edit
A banana eater needs a bigger brain to remember where the ripe stuff is, and the brain could be powered by all the calories in the bananas, so the “fruit-seeking brain theory”Read more at location 235
Note: c Edit
Robin Dunbar found no support for itRead more at location 237
Note: CONFUT Edit
Brain size did not correlate with the type of food.Read more at location 238
Note: c Edit
Animals with bigger brains had larger and more complex social networks.Read more at location 239
Note: TEORIA SOCIALE Edit
Humans are the primates who have the largest frontal lobes because we have the largest social groups, and that’s apparently why we have the most need for self-control.Read more at location 240
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We tend to think of willpower as a force for personal betterment—adhering to a diet, getting work done on time, going out to jog, quitting smoking—but that’s probably not the primary reason it evolved so fully in our ancestors.Read more at location 241
Note: SC: NOI LO VEDIAMO EGOISTICAMENTE MA LA SUA FUNZIONE È SOCIALE Edit
For animals to survive in such a group without getting beaten up, they must restrain their urge to eat immediately.Read more at location 245
Note: ESEMPIO. L ORDONE DI CIBATSI Edit
etiquette at dinner,Read more at location 248
Experts surmise that the smartest nonhuman primates can mentally project perhaps twenty minutes into the future—long enough to let the alpha male eat, but not long enough for much planning beyond dinner.Read more at location 248
Note: SCIMMIE 20 MINUTI. IL TEMPO CHE IL DOMINANTE MANGI Edit
Much of self-control operates unconsciously.Read more at location 254
One piece of cake won’t make you fat, and skipping one assignment won’t ruin your career. But in order to stay healthy and employed, you must treat (almost) every episode as a reflection of the general need to resist these temptations. That’s where conscious self-control comes in,Read more at location 262
Note: CAPACOTÀ DI GENERALIZZARE Edit
Why Will Yourself to Read This?Read more at location 265
Note: scopo primo del libro: xchè la volontà serve scopo secondo: cos è la volontà x 2 occorre una teoria della mente... la dominante: mente come pc (esclusa ogni componente rnrgetica) Edit
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We hope to combine the best of modern social science with some of the practical wisdom of the Victorians.Read more at location 266
Note: OBBIETTIVO. SCIENZA E MORALE VITTORIANA Edit
We’ll explain why corporate leaders pay $20,000 a day to learn the secrets of the to-do list from a former karate instructor, and why Silicon Valley’s entrepreneurs are creating digital tools to promote nineteenth-century values.Read more at location 267
Note: IL GRANDE REVIVAL Edit
understanding of the selfRead more at location 274
conventional view, called the information-processing model.Read more at location 274
mind as if it were a little computer. These information models of the human mind generally ignored concepts like power or energy,Read more at location 275
Note: LA CONCEZIONE DELLA MENTE TRADIZIONALE : UN PC CHE PROCESSA INFO. DOVE PRENDE L ENERGIA POCO CONTA Edit
Acquiring self-control isn’t as magically simple as the techniques in modern self-help books, but neither does it have to be as grim as the Victorians made it out to be. Ultimately, self-control lets you relax because it removes stress and enables you to conserve willpower for the important challenges.Read more at location 280
Note: NÈ FACILE COME I SELF HELP NÈ DISUMANO COME CERTO VICTORIAN